Our biggest tragedy is when we try but fail. It is radically wrong when you see yourself in that queue of failures. If I can help you to reframe a flashback, you will have the following reasons:
Family background can be poor, with few resources and you may have suffered many challenges in your childhood.
You may not have achieved well-defined goals in life, or you were not able to train your mind to achieve meaningful goals.
You were not ambitious enough or did not get a direction and just took life as it came….
Right education in terms of practical motivation was not given.
You were not self-disciplined and could not develop your segments of life in proper and purposeful goals.
Health could have been a reason for your poor achievements.
You did not make an effort to challenge your destiny and waited for miracles to happen.
You did not start your work due to lack of enthusiasm and motivation.
Your attitude was negative and you kept the company of like-minded people.
You lacked in deciding at the right time.
You were not ready to take calculated risks.
You were unable to work in a team.
You did not have enough inner strength.
If you are a victim of these factors and playing safe, you will not lead a meaningful life,so come forward with a vision and contribute in your role ,and you will find that you have many memories to feel proud of. Break the chains of fear and move forward.High esteem is driven by self-reflection, self-worth and self-acceptence has no room for fear and doubt.